Seriously, how likely is it to occur? I keep reading it in fics, but as far as I can tell from my own experience, it's not easy to brush a guy's groin accidentally. Not when pressed against him in a crowd (or, in case of Sirius/Remus fics, in some tiny alcove or other when hiding from Filch), not on a dancefloor, and not when kissing him. (This might be, of course, because most men are somewhat taller than I am, and in order to kiss me they have to bend down, thus bringing their groins out of my reach.) I mean, most people don't deliberately push their pelvises (pelvii?) forward in non-sexual situations, and when bumping into someone, you usually end up pressed against their chest or stomach; the groin is a fairly well protected region.
So, does any of you have different experiences? Am I merely blissfully (and stupidly) oblivious of all those hard-ons that have poked into my stomach over the years? Or does it work better when both partners are roughly the same height?
So, does any of you have different experiences? Am I merely blissfully (and stupidly) oblivious of all those hard-ons that have poked into my stomach over the years? Or does it work better when both partners are roughly the same height?